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Great leaders… don’t give up on their people

Great Leaders… believe the best. They choose their people carefully and stick with them when the going gets tough. they understand that their people are their greatest asset.

Jesus chose his people and he never re-chose. Even when they planned to kill him!

There were so many times where he could have said, “You know better, I’m finished with you!”. The reality is people don’t know what they don’t know. That’s why we need to lead people. If they “knew better” we wouldn’t have to make disciples. We wouldn’t need each other. But we are all learning and we need each other to grow.

There may be a time where someone needs to leave the team but it should not come as a surprise to them. This should only be after working together on the issues, after giving them clear input and correction. People need to have multiple chances to try again and be allowed to fail. What I’m describing is a high growth environment.

I think Jesus was a great leader. He chose 12 people and started the largest movement on the earth. He showed us about not giving up on people in his interaction with one of them in particular, Peter. Peter consistently said or did the wrong thing. And he took it to a whole new level when he denied even knowing Jesus in a time where the church was supposed to really get some traction. Jesus had trained these guys well(and let’s face it he is the ultimate trainer) and they failed to launch. They bombed when they were supposed to shine. So after Jesus rose back to life(pretty impressive) instead of deciding to just do it himself or starting over with better candidates he actually tracked Peter down and gave him yet another chance. This time we see the Gold and Peter rises to the occasion and becomes a pillar of the early church. Imagine if Jesus had just cut him off after his massive failure. In the middle of failure or poor performance your people need you to come alongside them and show them that you still believe in them. Affirm the truth about them and call them up to a new level.

There is no such thing as “bad people”, only poor leadership. There is gold in everyone. You need to dig a little deeper sometimes to find it, but it’s there. It’s always there. I am yet to work with someone who has no gold. If someone is not working out in your organization it may be as simple as a wrong role or wrong department. Your job as the leader is to help them find their lane, not just show them the exit ramp.

My first job was working at McDonalds. In Australia this is a classy establishment, dubbed as a family restaurant. They tried me on the “easy” stations; fries, burgers, register and I was terrible at all of them. Instead of just saying it’s not going to work out they kept looking for my lane. I ended up trying the production manager job, which was apparently more difficult, more training was required and it carried higher responsibility. Surprisingly, this was where I thrived. I became the best production manager at the store. Many of the kids my age in this position would make sure there were enough burgers so they could eat their fill of free food at closing. This shocked me to the core. I just could not believe someone would do something so dishonest. That’s why I was so good at it. When I was given the chance, I made sure that there was enough fresh food but not too much so we didn’t have to throw it away. Management were amazed at how consistent I was. I found my lane and I loved it. I also washed dishes at closing. I did not love that 🙂

So work hard to help your people find what they are good at and they will thrive and even want to do the jobs that noone else wants to.

Is there someone who is just very difficult to work with? Do they constantly push back or are they underperforming? Start by asking them about there personal life. How are they really doing? Behavior at work can be really affected by personal situations and when a leader can lean in and show some empathy it can bring a huge shift. Start by finding the right location, not your office with your massive desk separating you. By design they will be less likely to share or they will tell you what they think you want to hear. Instead, meet in a neutral location and ask, “how are you doing?”. This may be awkward at first but it is a vital tool of great leaders. You might need to ask them a few questions before they share with you.

Try these questions:

What is your biggest challenge right now?

If you could change one thing about your life what would it be?

If they are a brick wall you could share something that you are dealing with yourself. Being transparent is so inspiring and will help them to open up. I believe this kind of leadership is a lost art and we need to work to become good listeners again. When they do finally feel safe enough to open up, just listen. And when they finish sharing thank them for sharing. Then offer them something. You may want to offer some advice, but only if it is really helpful. John Maxwell says, “people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” And once they know you care they do want to listen to what you have to say. You could even give them some extra time off to take care of a personal issue. You will be amazed at the response. Just taking a little bit of time to really listen and show that you care will shift their behavior and boost their performance.

Don’t take my word for it, go out there and try it for yourself.

EXTRA: Sometimes the problem is not the other person, sometimes the problem lies with how you are perceiving them. If you are having a problem with someone, check your heart first. It may be as simple as changing you!

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GREAT LEADERS…

Welcome to a new series called “GREAT LEADERS . . .”

I love seeing people step into new levels of leadership. My hope is that as you follow along you will be inspired to become a more effective and influential leader.

noun lead·er \ˈlē-dər\  – A person that leads –

Simple enough for you?

Quote of the day:

       “If you think you are a leader and you look behind you and noone is following, think again” – Loren Cunningham – co-founder, Youth With a Mission.

1 – GREAT LEADERS… must be visible

In order for people to follow you, they have to see you.

Imagine that you are leading an expedition over a mountain to a magnificent alpine lake. You are the most experienced, you’ve been there before and you can’t wait for the others to see what you have seen.

Before you set off, you cast the vision, telling of the wonders of the other side of the mountain. And you’re off. Your team starts at a quick pace, excited to get to their goal. As the summit comes into view, the going gets tough and you notice your team has slowed. But not you! You have what it takes!! So you power on, thinking you will inspire them. You pass the summit in record time and finally get a glimpse of the goal ahead.

As the lake comes into view your heart jumps and you spin around to tell the team what you see… and there’s no-one there!

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You went too far ahead and they couldn’t see you, so they couldn’t follow you.

Leadership tip – Go far enough out in front so you are actually taking people somewhere, inspiring them to be a part of something great, but not so far ahead that you lose them.

You can’t lead well if you are distant from your team. You can’t lead by remote control.

Your job as the leader is to cast vision, inspire your people, be an example, show the way forward, connect with and empower your team. you cannot do these things via email alone.

People have to see you. They need to know you care. And they need you to see them working. Don’t be the boss who catches your people doing something wrong. Be the boss who catches your people working hard and tell them that you see them. It can be disheartening when your boss doesn’t see you working hard because your boss is just not around. Many leaders give affirmation when their people have completed a task. This is good leadership but I also like to affirm my people when they are in the middle of it, when they are doing the work. To tell them you see them working and are happy about it is a big boost in their day. This simple act of highlighting someone’s work ethic, not just their product, can really improve the outcome. And they will want to do it again and again.

And remember affirm publicly, correct privately. make it a habit to affirm your people in front of others. It means more. There is more weight behind it. And be consistent across your team. Everyone gets affirmed. If you have to search for the gold, then search, and when you find it call it out for all to hear. When a leader is speaking it is like they are holding a megaphone. Affirmation sounds louder when it comes from your boss.

Criticism sounds even louder! It booms in the ears of your people. So make sure no-one else is listening when you need to bring some correction. The moment you correct someone in front of their peers is the moment you start to lose them. This is a form of humiliation and it is very hard to recover from. It also puts fear in the hearts of the others listening, that this might happen to them. Some of you might say that’s a good thing, but in my experience fear is the worst motivation, yielding poor results. So hold your tongue until you have a setting where it is appropriate to bring correction. After bringing critique, point them forward to the goal ahead. You have to keep them in the game. Make it loud and clear that you still believe in them and you are excited about what is to come. Correction is not the end, it is an opportunity for growth. There may be a need to bring the outcome of your conversation to the team together, so they know you’ve worked it out, but not often. You need to use finesse in these moments. Your goal is to build your people up and build unity.

if you are connected to the heartbeat of your team you can create a culture where people are excited to receive input and are allowed to give input. You must have boots on the ground to do this.

Don’t take my word for it, try it for yourself!

 

EXTRA – I recommend that critique and affirmation be two separate conversations. Craig Groeschel says, “Don’t muddy your affirmation with critique”. Consistently build the bridge of affirmation so it’s strong enough to have correction cross over it.